All Is Not Lost

A quick unscientific reading of the comments I receive seem to suggest that my readers are telling me that a wife who is willing and able to spank a grown man to tears has probably already made up her mind that she is going to spank him in front of her friend.  It seems like my readers are trying to prepare me for the inevitable fact that sooner or later it will happen.  Of course I find the thought overwhelming and everyone suggests that if I truly don't want this to happen then I need to stand up to my wife an "Just Say No!"

Well, so far I have not been spanked since the last spanking I wrote about after Sarah left (the last spanking I wrote about was almost 2 years old, I am talking about the one I wrote about before that one)  so this post is to let you know so far so good.  I have not been spanked, Sarah has not been over since and there has not even been any tension between us.  Of course I think the slowly improving weather where we live (It was a difficult winter for us) has been making us more relaxed.

I have been reading other blogs on this subject and it is clear to me that while there are a lot of similarities between my situation and those in the other blogs there are also a lot of differences.  A comment-er said it appeared as if I have come to accept these spankings as a consequence of my behavior and a condition of my marriage.  The answer to that is yes, I have come to accept them as they seemed to be tempered with Justice and mercy.  Reading the other blogs it is clear that a lot of women enjoy dominating and spanking men, perhaps in their minds it corrects a perceived injustice in their mind.  Whatever, I recognize that my wife's motivation may not be solely benevolent.   That said, I really don't feel she is going out of her way to look for excuses to spank me.  In fact, she seems very tolerant of my less than perfect behavior and it is only when I 'cross the line' that I find myself over her knee or across the bed.

So that all said, I don't know if the naysayers are correct when they say that a spanking in front of Sarah is inevitable.  I still get the chills thinking about it.  I know there are those who say it won't be as bad as I imagine it to be, but I am not so sure.  I believe those comments are coming from those who secretly enjoy being spanked and maybe even want to be spanked in front of others.  That is not the case for me.  I love my wife and chose her as my mate.  Some readers are correct when they say being spanked is no worse than other methods wives us to "punish" their husbands.  All wives do this probably just as much as husbands "punish" their wives by ignoring them, yelling and being snippy.

Again I reiterate, other than the occasional spanking, our marriage is otherwise healthy and strong.  We get along really great and have great times together.  We don't argue that much and never really fight.  Some have suggested it is not healthy to not fight with your wife.  I call BS on that one.  I think that is just what couples who fight all the time say to make themselves feel good.

So while this may disappoint some readers who are looking forward to reading about the day I get spanked in front of Sarah, I remain confident that it will not happen.  While I have no doubts that she would follow through on her threats if I failed to behave properly, I am also confident that I will be able to control my behavior at least when Sarah is here.  So while I may not have been given my last spanking yet, I see them becoming fewer and far between and remaining private.

I will promise my readers this.  If I do get spanked again and in the unlikely event I do get spanked in front of Sarah, I will gather the strength to write about it so you will know if you were right and I was wrong.  But I swear again, I will NOT be spanked in front of Sarah EVER.

In the meantime, perhaps I will write another story about a past spanking.  I think the background helps the readers understand how I got to this point.  I will also take some time to reply to the many comments I have received, thank you to all the people who took the time to write comments.  Should anything new and relevant happen I will be sure to take some time to write.

Well, we have some good weather this weekend so we are going out hiking.  Like I said, we get along really well.  Oh, and by the way.  Sarah is stopping by for lunch on Sunday and I haven't a fear in the world.  I have no doubts that there will be no spanking.  I would even bet on it.  Any takers?