Just enough time for a quick note. My wife's friend was here for dinner last night and all went well. No problems and no spanking public or private. I did have some "weird" feelings all night and when I have some time I will share details, but for now I have to get to work. Just thought I would drop a quick note for those who were just a little curious how things went.
So for those hoping I was going to get a bare bottom spanking in front of her, sorry. For those encouraging me to behave, thanks. For me, I am relieved. Details to follow.
P.S. Also didn't screw up and call her Sarah.
Good for you rt. Keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteJim
Yay yay. ... knew you could do it. .. bet you feel so much happier today. Yes it will be interesting to hear your thoughts on what made made you feel uneasy. ... Well done on your behaviour last night!.
ReplyDeleteVianne
Well done. So your wife's disciplinary methods did work. What she instilled in you made you think about the consequences and your controlled yourself to ensure you didn't overstep the mark and earn that spanking. At least now you can relax in the knowledge that providing you behave, nothing untoward happens.....
ReplyDeleteWoohoo! What a result, well done. You may not have initially agreed with your wife's disciplinary methods but she must be very proud of your behaviour last night, as I can see you seem much happier today too.
ReplyDeleteYou seem to have mastered the cause, effect and consequences theory and who knows 2014 may just be the year that rt is spank free!
I am interested to know why you had uneasy feelings through the evening though....hmmmm!
Well done on your success - your success reflects on your wife's success so well done to both of you.
Vianne
Thank you for updating, and well done in finding a way to behave appropriately throughout the evening! While you have that feeling of success and accomplishment fresh in your psyche I'd encourage you to build on it in other areas where your behavior has been a problem in your marriage--otherwise you run the risk of thinking you've got a bad habit completely knocked and are more likely to backslide next time. Keep it up!
ReplyDeleteSo your name is .R T. That's so cool, I've been sending you poems,I hope you enjoyed them, if you check your blog "happy new year" I left you a few? The long one! " men who do stupid things" that's me sweetie! I send you another poem next time sugar! Amanda.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your success. I suggest you try to build on it by having a talk with your wife and saying that although you hate to be spanked by her, you love her, want to make her happy by being the husband she wants and are willing to submit to her discipline. All this would be by way of preface before telling her that what would help you most would be a list of the specific things you could do that would get you spanked. Once you know what they are, you should be able to avoid them just as you avoided getting spanked in front of 'Sarah.' I think your wife will be impressed by your proactive attempt to please her.
ReplyDeleteHere is my take on your situation..................2 things stand out to me as almost facts
ReplyDelete1- Sarah knows...........sorry to tell you this but she knows your wife spanks you and is probably looking forward to witnessing this event.
Why do i say this?...........if your wife is truely the sane person you say she is, she isn't going to just spring this on her freind
like that.......she might look foolish in front of her freind if she did........this would make her look bad and possibly
lose a freind.......so she has already disscussed this with her and she is probably looking forward to seeing you get
a good ass whoopin'.........possibly even participating in it by giving you a few licks herself
2 - it is not a matter of if but when you will get spanked in front of Sarah.......i can almost assure you this will happen.
your wife has already talked to her about it and more than likely sarah can't wait to see this happen......so it will definitely
happen.........you have already been spanked twice for being rude to Sarah and it is only a matter of time befroe it happens
again..........and your wife and Sarah are probably in cahoots about making this happen.........sure you got thru the last
Visit without an incident but how long do you think it will be before Sarah is pushing your buttons and you say something
that you shouldn't........in fact your wife probably told her not to push your buttons last time just to get you to relax
a little so you will mouth off and be rude to her the next time or time after that.
The only way out of this for you that i see is if you take your balls out of your wife's purse, put them back in your sack where
they belong and tell her in no uncertain terms that it will not happen.....NO WAY NO HOW.......she will NOt spank you from here
on out and you will not let it happen.........And if it comes down to it you may have to put up some physical resistance as
well to show her you mean business............if you see a way to turn the tables and spank her in front of her freind so much
the better.......show her you are a man and that she can't do that to you...........otherwise i fear that you are doomed to get
spanked in front of Sarah and then you won't have a leg to stand on in this relationship..............bottom line is you have to
let her know that this is not something that you are willing to take from her and that you will not any longer.
In closing i would like to let you know that if this is what you really want then more power to you........i hope you are
happy and have a long and happy marriage...........but if not then you really need to grow a pair and stand up to your wife
and let her know THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.
P.S. i really do look forward to hearing about which ever way it goes and really hope that you tell your wife that this
isn't going to happen
The above comment seems misguided on at least two counts. The assumption his wife has conspired with “Sarah” is just a speculation and since he believes that his wife is not setting him up (he should know) than she is probably bluffing about spanking him in front of “Sarah” Personally I believe his wife is bluffing and intends no public punishment. Why should she risk that with the results she is getting by spanking in private? Most wives who move it into the public arena are doing it to get more control over their husbands and she already has accomplished that. Few if any women ever take the risk of shocking a friend unless she has an understanding with the friend that witnessing a spanking is OK with her. So if we give her the benefit of the doubt about being truthful (and we should) then she isn’t going to spank in public unless the girlfriend is first told. The second point I object to is the idea that men who allow their wives to spank them are wimps who need to reclaim the own balls. Unless you have been there don’t judge. In the real world it often takes more strength and masculinity to accept your wife’s punishments rather than continue to be a jerk. Some of the strongest guys in the country regularly spend time over their wives lap studying the weave of the carpet and reflecting on what they done to earn it. It strengthens their marriage and them personally so don’t knock it until you have been there.
ReplyDeleteAlan
perhaps she is bluffing but if she truely intends to go thru with it then Sarah knows........as you said "Why should she risk that with the results she is getting by spanking in private? Most wives who move it into the public arena are doing it to get more control over their husbands and she already has accomplished that. Few if any women ever take the risk of shocking a friend unless she has an understanding with the friend that witnessing a spanking is OK with her. "
ReplyDeleteas for your second point i agree that a DD relationship is right for some people AS LONG AS IT IS CONSENUAL...........by the authors own admission he didn't sign on for this and therefore it is up to him to put a stop to it