Yes, that is right. This Sunday my wife's friend is coming over for diner.
For those of you who may be hoping that I screw up and get spanked in front of her, I am confident that I will be able to control myself and behave.
Of course, that doesn't mean that my stomach didn't do a back flip when my wife told me. I can feel a tingling in my backside and my heart begins to race every time I think about her coming over. I am not sure how I will feel when she is here in person, not sure how I will look at her knowing in the back of my mind that a repeat of my behavior from last time could result in my bottom being bared right in front of her.
Anyway, I have convinced myself that I will be able to behave myself.
I just hope I don't screw up and call her Sarah by mistake.
rt, you'll be fine. If you feel during the night your anxiety levels rise, just excuse yourself to the bathroom for a breather and try and get back to a state of calmness before returning to the dining room. Also, if "Sarah" tries to bait you into an argument, just agree with her for the sake of peace and the fact that she is a guest in your home, or beg to differ on a point and change the subject. You are an adult, rt, and you can CHOOSE your behaviour. Your wife has already told you what behaviours she doesn't want to see so if you exhibit these behaviours then you are, in effect, choosing a spanking!
ReplyDeleteYou can do this, stay calm, go the the bathroom for respite, and change the subject of conversation if things get heated or you don't like where the conversation is going.
Your wife loves you very much, she wants to see more adult behaviour from you, and this is your chance to step up to the plate. You can do this.
Best wishes for a successful and 'spank-free' night.
Vianne
It’s a little devious but I would watch “Sarah” to detect if she is baiting you in any way being careful not to react to her if she is. I believe your wife is truthful telling you that “Sarah” doesn’t know you are spanked but there is a puzzle here. The puzzle is that few if any women who discipline their husbands would administer a public spanking in front of a girlfriend unless the wife had told the girlfriend it happened or unless the wife knew somehow her friend would not be shocked ( as for example if the girlfriend is herself a disciplinarian. I have been through this with two different women and I am quite sure what I am telling you. The other possibility is that your wife is bluffing about spanking you in front of her girlfriend if you misbehave. If it was me I wouldn’t take the chance that she is bluffing but it is possible that she is knowing how fearful you are of it happening. Sort of something like a mother threatening to take your pants down in front of company when she knows she won’t actually do it
ReplyDeleteI say, "Hit the road, Jack"!!! Don't even stay to be "tempted"!!!! Lolzzz!!
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with both of the above replies. You can CHOOSE your behavior. Maybe its something brewing with the two of them or just an idle threat from your wife.. Really, what does it matter? This woman is your wife's friend, obviously not yours, so don't worry about her. Just be cordial, nice, and hospitable like you would be to anyone who is a guest in your home. No need to be rude, sarcastic, or unkind to her. If it's a setup, so be it. Just know if anything happens that it has been planned by the two of them. Even though it would be embarrassing, you will live through it. Remember, its her friend, not yours. From reading your posts I really don't think you have anything to worry about. I think it's probably an idle threat to keep you from being rude or obnoxious to her friend which you should not do anyway.
ReplyDeleteMy wife has never once threatened to give me a "dusting" in front of anyone and it has never happened. It is a private thing between us. After 20 years I don't think that will ever change. I hope it is the same with you.
Good luck,
Jim
I would not worry about this visit. You were here before. Wife said, act up and the pants come down in front of her. You were good, next time she didn't remind you and you acted up. Now the threat is very much on your mind so I know you will be good. The problem may come in the future when you forget or get comfortable and slip up again.
ReplyDeleteI think if your wife really wanted to spank you in front of her, it would have happened already. I am not saying its an idle threat, it may be, but I would not take the chance. I just don't think the fix is in either. I am 99% sure your pants will stay up this weekend. (Well I should rephrase that bet, I am 99% sure your pants will stay up in front of "Sarah") I hope you can also avoid a private spanking.
Like I said, I don't think she is out to get you. I get the feeling she prefers to keep this very real threat alive. Once she actually spanks you in front of her (if it ever happens) you will realize that the thought of getting spanked in front of her was worse than actually being spanked in front of her.
I agree that your bottom is probably safe Sunday and likely longer. That’s what getting spanked does to us. It makes us aware of our behavior and helps us keep it under control to avoid a repeat spanking. The problem is the memory of that spanking fades and our old behavior patterns reemerge getting us in trouble again with our wives. It’s a cycle that gets longer and longer between spankings if your wife is consistent in disciplining you. But you probably never get to the point where spankings end completely. My wife sometimes refers to my spankings as her sanction over me and she often has said she can’t imagine being married to me without that sanction. I believe that once a women starts spanking she never gives it up. Realistically all we can do is reduce the times we get spanked and never expect to be free of the threat of being spanked. To me that is not such a bad thing. My wife’s spankings have helped my self-confidence while assuring me she still loves me. Many times she has said she would not bother to spank if she didn’t care and that makes it all more than worthwhile
ReplyDeleteIn my case, my wife's sister was the first one to watch me being spanked (bare-bottomed, of course!) shortly after we were married - and many times thereafter... (since then, she herself has paddled or whipped me on a number of occasions)...
ReplyDeleteThis (I suspect) was the precedent for my wife to apply the hairbrush, the kitchen spoon, and the martinet to my uncovered backside under the eyes of three of her friends... and more often that I care to remember !